This week/end we haven't done ABR purely for the reason of Halloween. Well for us we had a turbulent year with the diagnosis of Oatie, Oatie's grandfather passed away and our 3 monthly trips for Oatie for his ABR. Well we didn't do parties this year for the kids partly because we did go to Disneyland for our eldest two and Oatie we flew to ABR on his Birthday. Our older two missed all their Halloween festivities this week so we insanely did a Halloween party 2 days after we landed. All our friends really helped by bringing savour dishes and I made a whole dining table full of cakes, biscuits etc. Today we went trick or treating for the first time with our kids we were "waiting" for Oatie to walk last year, same for entertaining same for lots of things so now we know he has CP we're just as a family getting on with our lives rather than waiting.